The Lie of Self-Help: Why You Don’t Need Fixing, You Need Unleashing

Let me burn a sacred cow right now. You are not broken. You are not some wounded thing that needs constant tweaking, fixing, or purifying.

What you need is a mirror. What you need is a fire. What you need… is permission to roar.

Self-Help Is the New Cage

They sell you the illusion that you’re healing while keeping you tame. You go from book to book, course to course, coach to coach — and for what?

To “become better”? No. To become smaller. Softer. Safer. More digestible.

Self-help isn’t helping if all it’s doing is convincing you that you’re not ready yet...

You Don’t Need to Be Fixed — You Need to Be Felt

Have you ever screamed into a pillow? Sobbed until your ribs rattled? Cursed the universe with shaking fists?

That’s healing. That’s real.

You don’t need more polishing. You need to be witnessed in your contradictions — in your shadow and your chaos.

“You don’t own me anymore.”

“Good Girl” Programming Dies Hard

From day one, you were told to behave. To be polite. To stay small. To apologize for your fire.

But comfort isn’t transformation. It’s stagnation.

Act Now. Not When You're “Ready”

You’ve been taught to wait until you’re “healed,” “whole,” or “high-vibe” enough before you move.

You don’t become powerful by waiting. You become powerful by choosing. Right now. In this breath. In the mess.

You're Not a Project. You're a Portal

You were never meant to be managed. You were meant to be felt, feared, followed, or rejected — but not tamed.

You’re not here to perfect your mindset. You’re here to crack reality open.

The ones who change the world aren’t those with the cleanest aura. They’re the ones who move while still bleeding.

So Here's What I Dare You To Do

• Burn your need to be liked.
• Unfollow the accounts that make you feel like you’re “behind.”
• Rage without apology.
• Create while crying.
• Teach from the wound, not the scar.
• Let the contradictions be sacred.

And most of all… Stop fixing. Start unleashing.

Because you were never broken. You were just bound.